Mind Trick 1
Where are the 'goodies' kept? – Are you making it too easy? Make it so getting to them requires effort (the more the better), put them in a screw top jar, in the back of a cupboard or in the garage! And after eating one you have to put them back.
Why This Works: Humans, by nature, always go for the easy option, you won’t be tempted as often if you have to make a big effort to get to them.
Mind Trick 2
Have you ever been half way through eating a packet of biscuits before you realise you’re eating them? Sit in a different chair, change what you're saying to yourself, change the activity you're doing, change anything!!!
Why this works: This happens because our brains work on patterns, there’s a trigger and it rolls out the pattern without us noticing, when we change one of the key elements it disrupts the flow and our brain can't carry out the rest of the pattern.
Mind Trick 3
Make healthy stuff the easiest choice – This is the opposite of trick 1. How often do you just want a quick fix? Make the healthy choices the easiest. Get the fruit bowl right in front of you, peel the oranges and put them in the fridge etc. I even take the grapes of the stalks and put them in a bowl!!
Why this works: This turns the human nature of 'easiest option' in your favour. We want a quick fix you may be surprised just how much your heads don’t care what that is.
Mind Trick 4
Are you saying to yourself that points 1 or 3 won’t work because you like ‘it’ too much? That’s telling me that food answers an emotional need. This is often the case for most people.....I'll treat myself too x.....I've had a bad day I deserve x......It maybe you need something that makes you smile, to feel naughty, to treat yourself etc. Notice the emotion and find other ways to feed that emotion - that don’t involve food!
Why this works: Often we eat for an emotional need, it’s the need which needs sorting, how you do that is your choice, your head doesn’t actually care if it's food or something else. So long as the need is answered the mind is happy.
Mind Trick 5
Do you berate yourself with guilt, tell yourself you’re a bad person or that you have rubbish willpower? Research has proven that when people are happy they find it easier to make better decisions. So try being nice to yourself and see what happens.
Why this works: Hearing nice things makes us feel good, when we feel good we experience less of the emotions which make us feel low and therefore less of a need for a pick-me-up.
Mind Trick 6
A busy life means you’re less likely to eat 3 proper meals a day and when our energy is low we crave sugar. Have some healthy snacks in your handbag and/or car so you can eat these and keep those energy levels up without sabotaging your efforts with a sugary fix.
Why this works: Sugar is the quickest substance our bodies can turn into energy. When our energy is low our brains signal to find sugar to replenish the energy as quick as possible. Keep that energy topped up with healthy snacks and you won't crave the sweet stuff as often.
So that's it, 6 mind tricks to help you lose weight even when your life is busy, here's a recap:
1. Make the 'goodies' hard to get
2. Interrupt the automatic patterns
3. Make the healthy stuff super easy to eat.
4. Answer the emotion with something other than food.
5. Say nice things to yourself.
6. Lessen the cravings by managing your energy.
Start now, go and make the little changes and let me know in the comments box below how you get on.
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In absolute truth I believe in both. You’ll never get your outcomes if all you do is dream and never take action……but how do you know what you want if we don’t allow ourselves to dream? Maybe it's time to build a bridge and realise we can do both.
In my opinion our western way of life puts so much emphasis on logical, action based thinking we forget about our creativity, imagination and passions. It’s like being trapped in a cage of targets and pressure……..it’s no wonder people clamber for escapisms and fun.
We’re so busy comparing ourselves to the ‘you should be doing x’ according to our well defined logical lives……that if you don’t fit this box you feel alienated, full of anxiety and quite frankly lost. It’s really no wonder depression and anxiety figures are on the rise.
Do I think positive thinking and self healing actually work? Yes!!! Of course they bloody do. If you cut yourself you heal don’t you??? Our bodies are designed to heal but does that mean I don’t use medication……no!!! Everything has its place and I don’t believe it has to be one or the other but you can put equal amount of emphasis on both.
And often life is rubbish and throws you things which are hard to deal with and you can choose to feel like a victim, feeling alone, angry or hurt, day in and day out, or you can take the occasional ‘den day’ feeling awful and then muster up all the positivity you can and crack on. Perpetual negative thoughts have been proven to only lead you to a more miserable place.
There are so many myths about hypnotherapy, wishy washy isn’t something I would use to describe it. Does hypnotherapy encourage you to use your creative brain……yes. Does this approach often result in different answers…..yes. Does relaxing and getting away from the pressure of life help you feel better……yes. So since when did doing things the hard way and having to feel rubbish day after day become the only answer? Through hypnotherapy you can relax, solve your own challenges and feel good whilst doing it so why wouldn’t you want to?
Personally I think it’s time to stop thinking we have to choose one or the other. Action and hard work will get you there but don’t forget to dream, create and feel good whilst you’re doing it.
What’s your thoughts? This is such a big topic, I know you’ll have an opinion so please feel free to comment below and join a discussion.
Until next time